Hoda Kotb Welcomes Ex Joel Schiffman to Her $2.9 Million New York Home for Father’s Day
This past Father’s Day, Hoda Kotb posted a photo on Instagram that had nothing to do with a comeback, a new show, or a headline grab. It was just a man with his arms around two little girls, grinning in a kitchen. The caption read: “Best Father’s Day to the best father.”
The man was Joel Schiffman, 67. Her ex-fiancé. And the kitchen was inside the $2.9 million home Hoda bought in Bronxville, New York, the same house she moved into when she left her 26-year career behind.
The Home She Bought Before She Said Goodbye
In April 2024, Hoda quietly purchased a four-bedroom, five-bathroom center-hall Colonial in Bronxville, NY for $2,895,000. The house sits on about a third of an acre, rare for New York suburbs.
Inside, there’s a chef’s kitchen, a family room with vaulted ceilings and a skylight, a heated marble bathroom floor, and a primary bedroom stretching 764 square feet.
Five months after buying it, she announced she was leaving the Today show.
Hoda said she had one clear vision for the space: “I wanted my house for the kids to feel warm and cozy and a place where they want to hang. And that’s it.”
Most people assumed the move was about simplicity. It partly was. But the full story came out during a May 2024 Today appearance, when Hoda revealed that her younger daughter Hope had been diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes.
“As anyone with a child who has Type 1, especially a little kid, you’re constantly watching, you’re constantly monitoring,” she said. “I can be here and sweating what’s happening to Hope, or I can be there and feel relief that I can see.”
The house wasn’t a luxury upgrade. It was a health decision first.
Celebrity real estate decisions rarely come with this kind of context attached. When Kristen Wiig quietly dropped the price on her treehouse home in Pasadena, the story behind why she wanted out was just as interesting as the listing itself.
Joel Still Lives in Manhattan. But He Keeps Showing Up.
What most coverage misses entirely is this: Joel visiting for Father’s Day isn’t a one-time thing. He came last Father’s Day too. He came for a “Funday Sunday” in November, a family dinner with pizza, grilled chicken, and pasta at Hoda’s dining table.
He was there for Christmas in matching pajamas with Hoda’s mom and sister. Hoda posted a tribute on his birthday in March.
Joel, a financier, still lives in Manhattan. Bronxville is roughly 30 minutes away. He drives up. He shows up. And Hoda posts about it without drama.
According to Realtor.com, this is the second consecutive Father’s Day Schiffman has spent at Kotb’s Bronxville home since she purchased it.
Most celebrity breakups become a legal back-and-forth that occasionally surfaces in tabloids. This one looks nothing like that.
Compare it to how messy things got when Diddy’s $55 million Star Island home sale fell apart and ended in a lawsuit, where high-profile real estate and personal relationships got completely tangled. Except here, they haven’t.
What Hoda Has Actually Said About Joel
Hoda said it plainly to People magazine in July 2024: “It’s because of Joel that I have Haley and Hope, without question. I think I might have been too afraid to do it alone.”
To E! News in August 2024: “Joel is one of the best people I know, and he really is a great human being.”
When she announced their split in January 2022, she told Jenna Bush Hager on air: “We decided that we’re better as friends and parents than we are as an engaged couple.”
That’s not PR language. Those are the words of someone who has actually worked something out.
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Why This Matters
A review of 54 studies by the Institute for Family Studies found that children in shared parenting arrangements consistently show better emotional, academic, and psychological outcomes than those in sole custody, even when there’s conflict between the parents.
The benefit isn’t about money or geography. It’s about both parents staying present.
Hoda moved to the suburbs. Joel stayed in the city. But he makes a 30-minute drive, walks into that Colonial kitchen, and wraps his arms around his daughters.
That’s exactly what researchers keep pointing to, and what most separated parents, celebrity or not, struggle to actually do.
Bold real estate decisions always carry a story behind them. This all-glass house in Washington DC is another example, a one-of-a-kind property where the decision to buy only makes sense when you understand what the buyer is really looking for.
Hoda’s Bronxville home follows the same logic.
What the House Actually Represents
Hoda left a $20 million-a-year job, moved out of Manhattan, and bought a house a short walk from her daughters’ school.
She told Today.com: “I’m just going to let us be a family with a normal rhythm of life. See what we become.”
The $2.9 million home isn’t a status symbol. It’s the physical structure of a decision she made, to be present, to slow down, and to build something that didn’t need a 3am alarm to hold it together.
And her ex still has a place in that life. Just not the way anyone expected.
Does Hoda and Joel’s approach to co-parenting change how you see their story? Or do you think the media makes too much of the “friendly ex” angle? Drop your thoughts in the comments, genuinely curious what people here think.
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